Re: ADMIN: RE: Is the AWS support for Oracle enough good?

Taking this chance and I do because as dba we confront problems with people that can't be solved with plsql.

Thank you Mark, and sorry again to Mladen. THIS IS NOT ABOUT MLADEN is only about psychology please.

Letme please make some comments, please, please.

Personally if he would had toldme that he is my father, I would had laugh and tell something "you are not my father becase I'm not xxx", xxx is anything funny.

But talking about strategy and taking this unique chance, I could reverse the situation, saying something like if you had feel ofended is because you don't consider enough good human, and blah blah blah.

In psychology is very interesting that sometimes the wolf is the good guy. I remember a good article in psychology, there are victims (man or women) who really reject good people and find an agresson, following this plan of life, one he finds him, he provoke, womens does with language, in example when is drunked, then she makes upset, and then she exagerates any kind of verbal agression; then comes the woodcutter to save the princess, and attack the agrsesor, in this case the wolf, when the wolf was only a normal persona; but the scrpt of life of the women and the hero, need to find or create and aggresor, to meet them and marry, sounds crazy but that is how the mind works.

Talking about the +association, these is too in the strategy, because allows to get an aditional advantage if you can get the other part feels guilty ;)

Sorry for the OT, and please read my other ot of the +association if you are interested in change the world :), otherwise no, but lately I'm not making OTs, so one from time to time is good for the heart. :)

2017-09-25 17:01 GMT-04:00 Mark W. Farnham <mwf_at_rsiz.com>:

> Guesting for Mark Bobak until he has a chance to read and respond:
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> All protests about others’ behavior should be either directly and
> privately with the other person or with the ADMIN directly (which is often
> the case because direct emails may not be possible to a lot of accounts.)
> Definitely **NOT** to the list as a whole. That should only come from
> ADMIN. That is Mark Bobak, but he has authorized me to step in when timely
> response seems right and I don’t know if he has had a chance that day. This
> is such an occasion. Mark will let you know if he disagrees in any way, and
> I submit in advance to any such correction.
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> In general we should keep to Oracle technical topics and brief OT asides
> or announcements pre-authorized by the ADMIN. Over decades that has worked
> reasonably on this list without screening posts in advance (which would
> kill the list by making it expensive instead of free).
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> So please let’s up our game, all of us. I personally thought the Onion
> reference indicated that Mladen was kidding, but we also need to remember
> we have issues of international communications, so let’s be careful out
> there. Likewise I thought Juan was kidding back, which shows how easy it is
> to touch a personal tragedy unintentionally.
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> All the best my friends, and hopes that we can seamlessly return to our
> previously scheduled technical conversations and let this pass.
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> mwf
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> *From:* oracle-l-bounce_at_freelists.org [mailto:oracle-l-bounce_at_
> freelists.org] *On Behalf Of *Juan Carlos Reyes Pacheco
> *Sent:* Monday, September 25, 2017 3:27 PM
> *To:* Mladen Gogala
> *Cc:* ORACLE-L; oracle-l-admins_at_freelists.org
> *Subject:* Re: Is the AWS support for Oracle enough good?
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> I'm sorry I didn't that with that intention, but I'm asking why when is
> convenient for you, you take as a joke and when is not convenient for you,
> you play with guilty, these means to assume people does thing with bad
> intention.
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> If you want to make jokes you must accept things with sense of humor,
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> Remembering your mails, me and other people could take that attitude and
> act in that way, but I think you must mature.
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> I'll not repeat the joke if you take in that way any way, because is not
> my intention to hurt or fault the respect to anyone in this forum.
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> Greetings and sorry again :)
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> 2017-09-25 15:08 GMT-04:00 Mladen Gogala <gogala.mladen_at_gmail.com>:
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> My father died on December the 3rd 2011, two day after his 80th birthday
> and you are definitely not him. No matter how irked you may be by my post,
> dragging someone's family through the public mailing list is not the way to
> settle scores. Please refrain from such practice. I have also emailed the
> list admin, to complain about this post. I sort of hoped that this list can
> stay above despicable insults like this one.
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> On 09/25/2017 01:24 PM, Juan Carlos Reyes Pacheco wrote:
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> Thank you Mladen I'm you father :)
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> --
> Mladen Gogala
> Oracle DBA
> Tel: (347) 321-1217
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