RE: still further off topic --> RE: Work vs marriage

From: Bruce Page <bpage_at_kimball.com>
Date: Fri, 2 Jun 2000 07:42:39 -0500
Message-Id: <10516.107535@fatcity.com>

This message is in MIME format. Since your mail reader does not understand this format, some or all of this message may not be legible.

------_=_NextPart_001_01BFCC90.318744EE
Content-Type: text/plain;

charset="iso-8859-1"

One of the main rules of nature. If mama ain't happy, ain't nobody happy.

-----Original Message-----
From: Scott Shafer [mailto:scott.shafer_at_ildmail.com] Sent: Thursday, June 01, 2000 6:30 PM
To: Multiple recipients of list ORACLE-L Subject: Re: still further off topic --> RE: Work vs marriage

Immediately after our first child was born, my wife was put on 12 hour nights (she was still in the military). I learned about single parenting (a newborn) for 3 months - more than I ever wanted to know. My wife stays at home with both of our children now, and we're all happier. We also end up ahead of where we were financially when we both worked. This is _not_ a chauvinist rant. After taxes, daycare, gas for second vehicle, etc., we were spending more than she made up for with her income. It just wasn't worth it. The kids are happier with Mommy around, and my wife is less stressed out, which makes "home life" much nicer.

------_=_NextPart_001_01BFCC90.318744EE
Content-Type: text/html;

charset="iso-8859-1"

<!DOCTYPE HTML PUBLIC "-//W3C//DTD HTML 3.2//EN">
<HTML>
<HEAD>
<META HTTP-EQUIV="Content-Type" CONTENT="text/html; charset=iso-8859-1">
<META NAME="Generator" CONTENT="MS Exchange Server version 5.5.2448.0">
<TITLE>RE: still further off topic --> RE: Work vs marriage</TITLE>
</HEAD>
<BODY>

One of the main rules of nature.  If mama ain't happy, ain't nobody happy.


-----Original Message-----
 From: Scott Shafer [<A HREF="mailto:scott.shafer_at_ildmail.com">mailto:scott.shafer_at_ildmail.com</A>]
 Sent: Thursday, June 01, 2000 6:30 PM
 To: Multiple recipients of list ORACLE-L
 Subject: Re: still further off topic --> RE: Work vs marriage

 

Immediately after our first child was born, my wife was put on 12 hour
 nights (she was still in the military).  I learned about single parenting (a
 newborn) for 3 months - more than I ever wanted to know.  My wife stays at
 home with both of our children now, and we're all happier.  We also end up
 ahead of where we were financially when we both worked.
 This is _not_ a chauvinist rant.  After taxes, daycare, gas for second
 vehicle, etc., we were spending more than she made up for with her income.
 It just wasn't worth it.  The kids are happier with Mommy around, and my
 wife is less stressed out, which makes "home life" much nicer.


</BODY>
Received on Fri Jun 02 2000 - 07:42:39 CDT